| Prostate is situated in front of the rectum and under the bladder. The G spot is a man's emotional sex centre, as its stimulation can be an extremely healing experience. As the most direct way to milking the man's G spot is through his anus, it takes time to get adjusted to being penetrated this way. However, within a loving relationship massaging the p spot can be an amazing experience.
Why is p spot massage so enjoyable? Actually, there are a few reasons.
As it was mentioned above, the direct stimulation of the prostate is impossible, and even with the access through the rectal wall there still will be a membrane obstructing the way. Despite this limitation the lobes of the prostate are unbelievably sensitive, and pressing the gland through the rectal wall can give a wide range of sensations, similar to those usually felt during ejaculation.
Along with the genitals, the anus is intervowen with a number of of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can result in a fantastic orgasm.
Surprisingly, the base of penis is buried inside the body and may be treated in a similar way as the prostate. The effect of massaging the three at one and the same time can be awesome, if done simultaneously with the stimulation of the penis.
Due to the unknown nature of penetration, the psychological effect of massage of the prostate is even more overwhelming than the physiological one. The feeling of the male finding himself in such a unusual situation can be a source of a great sexual empowerment for both receiver and giver.
Prostate massage requires certain preparation. The receiver should take a shower before massage of the prostate. The giver will need tightly fitting latex gloves and a lubricant. The gloves are required to protect the delicate anal membranes from sharp finger nails. The lubricant makes penetration easy.
There are several positions for massage of the prostate to choose from, and it is really a matter of finding the position for better access to the prostate with the gloved hand. For greater intimacy and an eye contact choose a face-to-face position. Facing away from the giver will give the latter a splendid view.
The giver should help the lover relax through massaging the full body, with a special attention to the thighs. Kneading the muscles of the behind and thighs, teasing the inner thighs, gently spreading the cheeks in concert are the best ways to have the lover aroused. When the receiver is sufficiently relaxed, the giver should slip on a glove and start lubricating the lover's anus. The lubrication process should be prolonged, in order to pleasure the nervous rosebud. When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is needed is time and patience. As soon as the giver notices that the finger is ‘drawn' into the anus, it is the right time to seek out the prostate: this can be easily accomplished by moving the inserted finger along the wall of the rectum, until a small ball is felt. Rotating finger all the way around the rectum will provide a variety of feelings.
A prostate orgasm is frequently much more intense and prolonged than a conventional man orgasm. Many men relish a prostate orgasm as much, or even more a conventional orgasm. Do the prostate orgasm stimulation with care, safely and regularly, and enjoy all its benefits. |